The Whole World Needs a Twelve Step Program
Apr 9, 09- (by Syd)
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Have you ever noticed how things just slow down and chill out when you finally “get it” about recovery? All the things that used to burn my fuse seem so insignificant and distant to me now. I’m actually surprised when I encounter something that seems to burn someone else’s fuse. Traffic and driving is a good example. I have a 5 speed car so I shift into neutral at a stop light. It may take, say, 2 seconds to shift into first from neutral but you would be surprised at the number of people who will beep or shake their head or fist while I shift. It’s as if they are already having a bad day and it’s only 8 AM.
My friend D. has an old car but it has a good engine. He’s a gear head and can put a car engine together just for fun. I know that he used to drive fast and be a hell-raiser before he decided that he would rather live than die from alcohol at 28. When we’re driving in his car on a street and someone is tail gating him, he’ll say, “Well, I think I’ll give Mr. SUV some room and let him pass on by. He’s obviously in too big a hurry to enjoy the day.” Then, he’ll pull over to the side of the road. D. has that live and let live philosophy from being in AA for many years.
What I think is that the world needs to be in a 12 step program. I can’t think of many people that I know who wouldn’t benefit from a little of the Live and Let Live, Easy Does It, First Things First, and How Important Is It philosophy. When someone at work starts taking themselves too seriously, I think “How important is it?”. When someone starts going off on another person, I think, ” Easy does it”. When I have a bunch of choices to make about the things that I’m asked to commit to, I think “First Things First”. And when I see someone making an ass of themselves at a social function, I think, “Live and let live”.
There aren’t many times in a day that the teachings of Al-Anon and AA don’t pop into my head. They provide a means by which I now live my life. I’ve been to church and read the Bible but nothing has touched me as much as reading the BB and the Al-Anon literature. There’s such a sense of peace that I get from meetings. It would be great if all those people who are rushing about to get nowhere would be infused with some of the 12 step ideology.
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This is so well said! I found the same is now true for me — what used to get me all riled up and off on a tangent, consuming moments (hours / days) of my time, now just rolls off — thanks to the 12-step program. It’s WONDERFUL!!!
Well, everyone always quotes from one book or the other, eh? I’ll take the one most transformational and less bigoted. Good post Syd.
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